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		<title>By: BloggerNewbie</title>
		<link>http://bloggernewbie.com/2009/03/02/defeat-is-not-the-worst/comment-page-1/#comment-6342</link>
		<dc:creator>BloggerNewbie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Mar 2009 20:56:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Val:

reminds me of another quote:

the best thing to do is the right thing, the next best thing to do is the wrong thing, the worst thing to do is nothing.  so, yup,  you are right!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Val:</p>
<p>reminds me of another quote:</p>
<p>the best thing to do is the right thing, the next best thing to do is the wrong thing, the worst thing to do is nothing.  so, yup,  you are right!</p>
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		<title>By: NaTuRaL</title>
		<link>http://bloggernewbie.com/2009/03/02/defeat-is-not-the-worst/comment-page-1/#comment-6235</link>
		<dc:creator>NaTuRaL</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Mar 2009 15:09:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>that&#039;s a good thing to remember, the worse that could happen.  it&#039;s always better to try than to do nothing.  that&#039;s probably the worse thing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>that&#8217;s a good thing to remember, the worse that could happen.  it&#8217;s always better to try than to do nothing.  that&#8217;s probably the worse thing.</p>
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		<title>By: BloggerNewbie</title>
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		<dc:creator>BloggerNewbie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Mar 2009 13:46:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ben:

I think the older I get the more fear stops me for some reason?!  It is wonderful to be fearless-keep it up!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ben:</p>
<p>I think the older I get the more fear stops me for some reason?!  It is wonderful to be fearless-keep it up!</p>
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		<title>By: Ben</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ben</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Mar 2009 13:38:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It is usually not the defeat that gets me, but what I did wrong.  I drive myself crazy going over what I should have done differently so I can get better for the next time.  

As far as fear stopping you from trying - fortunately I am too naive to consider a lot of what could happen before I start a project.  The first time I signed up for a poker tournament my poker friends gave me the blunt opinion that they didn&#039;t think I would stand a chance.  Which was probably true and I had fortunately already signed up before telling them.  I actually almost didn&#039;t tell anyone because I didn&#039;t want to be laughed at.  I ended up winning which astounded some of them - and me for that matter.  I didn&#039;t think I had too big of chance but just wanted to see what it was like.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Ben´s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.blogmastergeneral.com/2009/03/extra-post-about-site-names/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Extra post about site names&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is usually not the defeat that gets me, but what I did wrong.  I drive myself crazy going over what I should have done differently so I can get better for the next time.  </p>
<p>As far as fear stopping you from trying &#8211; fortunately I am too naive to consider a lot of what could happen before I start a project.  The first time I signed up for a poker tournament my poker friends gave me the blunt opinion that they didn&#8217;t think I would stand a chance.  Which was probably true and I had fortunately already signed up before telling them.  I actually almost didn&#8217;t tell anyone because I didn&#8217;t want to be laughed at.  I ended up winning which astounded some of them &#8211; and me for that matter.  I didn&#8217;t think I had too big of chance but just wanted to see what it was like.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Ben´s last blog post..<a href="http://www.blogmastergeneral.com/2009/03/extra-post-about-site-names/" rel="nofollow">Extra post about site names</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Dee Langdon - BloggerNewbie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dee Langdon - BloggerNewbie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 23:02:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>George:

great tips.  fear can be paralyzing!  I often have to talk myself into doing some things and convince myself that my fears are without merit.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Dee Langdon - BloggerNewbie´s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/bloggernewbie/vZlO/~3/O_r3-kcd8qo/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;To Tweak or Not to Tweak&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>George:</p>
<p>great tips.  fear can be paralyzing!  I often have to talk myself into doing some things and convince myself that my fears are without merit.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Dee Langdon &#8211; BloggerNewbie´s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/bloggernewbie/vZlO/~3/O_r3-kcd8qo/" rel="nofollow">To Tweak or Not to Tweak</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Tumblemoose</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 14:15:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Dee,

Now don&#039;t get the impression that I do these kinds of things for all of my fears, but I&#039;ll give you two examples for me.

When I got hired to be a Paramedic with LAFD, I was scared to death of heights.  So, I climbed a ladder at every opportunity.  I made myself just get up and do it, and eventually, much of that fear went away.

A little over a decade ago, I developed a sudden fear of flying.  It wasn&#039;t about heights, it was about crashing.  I think I got it in my brain that since I had flown so many miles, the odds were starting to go against me.  So, I became a pilot.  Believe me, there is nothing more humbling than the day the instructor, gets out of the plane and says, &quot;She&#039;s all yours.  Go on your first solo.&quot;  Very sobering to look over and see no one else up in the cockpit...

Anyway, tackling demons head on can sometimes work.

Cheers

George

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Tumblemoose´s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://tumblemoose.com/the-organized-writer/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The organized writer&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Dee,</p>
<p>Now don&#8217;t get the impression that I do these kinds of things for all of my fears, but I&#8217;ll give you two examples for me.</p>
<p>When I got hired to be a Paramedic with LAFD, I was scared to death of heights.  So, I climbed a ladder at every opportunity.  I made myself just get up and do it, and eventually, much of that fear went away.</p>
<p>A little over a decade ago, I developed a sudden fear of flying.  It wasn&#8217;t about heights, it was about crashing.  I think I got it in my brain that since I had flown so many miles, the odds were starting to go against me.  So, I became a pilot.  Believe me, there is nothing more humbling than the day the instructor, gets out of the plane and says, &#8220;She&#8217;s all yours.  Go on your first solo.&#8221;  Very sobering to look over and see no one else up in the cockpit&#8230;</p>
<p>Anyway, tackling demons head on can sometimes work.</p>
<p>Cheers</p>
<p>George</p>
<p><abbr><em>Tumblemoose´s last blog post..<a href="http://tumblemoose.com/the-organized-writer/" rel="nofollow">The organized writer</a></em></abbr></p>
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