http://bloggernewbie.com/2008/09/28/i%e2%80%99m-a-people-pleaser/ Bloggers helping Bloggers - Motivation and Blogging Sun, 21 Feb 2010 17:24:57 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 http://bloggernewbie.com/2008/09/28/i%e2%80%99m-a-people-pleaser/comment-page-1/#comment-664 BloggerNewbie Mon, 29 Sep 2008 00:04:27 +0000 http://bloggernewbie.com/blog/?p=813#comment-664 I totally agree. And I am here to tell you, most people do not like your "right to choose" unless of course you choose exactly what they want. They don't like change. When you start to take a stand and actually speak for yourself, then you are selfish. I totally agree. And I am here to tell you, most people do not like your “right to choose” unless of course you choose exactly what they want. They don’t like change. When you start to take a stand and actually speak for yourself, then you are selfish.

]]> http://bloggernewbie.com/2008/09/28/i%e2%80%99m-a-people-pleaser/comment-page-1/#comment-663 WD Favour Sun, 28 Sep 2008 18:09:27 +0000 http://bloggernewbie.com/blog/?p=813#comment-663 I could easily give this article another title - Protect Your Right To Choose. It's your life. You've only got so much time. So why not spend that life and that time doing things that you sincerely choose to do and which contributes to your own feeling of relevance and self worth. We actually live in a world where everybody else seems to be putting subtle pressures on everybody else to do what everybody else wants and be what everybody else wants. So I agree that it takes a lot of courage to not be a people pleaser. I personally made that choice when I was merely 19 and decided to live my own life and be my own man and do things because I choose to them, personally believe they are worth doing and derive a sense of fulfillment from doing them. Thanks a lot for this post. I could easily give this article another title – Protect Your Right To Choose.
It’s your life. You’ve only got so much time. So why not spend that life and that time doing things that you sincerely choose to do and which contributes to your own feeling of relevance and self worth.
We actually live in a world where everybody else seems to be putting subtle pressures on everybody else to do what everybody else wants and be what everybody else wants.
So I agree that it takes a lot of courage to not be a people pleaser. I personally made that choice when I was merely 19 and decided to live my own life and be my own man and do things because I choose to them, personally believe they are worth doing and derive a sense of fulfillment from doing them.
Thanks a lot for this post.

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